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Some would disagree but it's my opinion that the sharing of intimate pleasure in a marriage enables couples to bond more deeply as friends. That deep rooted friendship will sustain the marriage during turbulence even as the couple ages.

 Could she be withholding sex to punish you due to an inability on her part, Or could it be that she is expressing healthy anger? If your wife is passive aggressive, this could be the case. Those who deal with conflicts in a passive aggressive manner have coping mechanisms that tell their brains to stop needing such things as sex and emotional connection with a spouse. Could it be that its your husbands who is a victim of all above?

If she is withholding sex she could be doing so because she truly has stopped needing sex with you and, her reptilian brain has come up with a masterful way to punish you instead of openly expressing dissatisfaction with you?

Sexual rejection, especially by someone who vowed to "love, honor and cleave unto" you is devastating. It leaves you feeling unattractive and undesirable by the person you find most attractive and desirable and therefore the situation needs help before destroying your relationship and feelings.

You may internalize her/his rejection and blame yourself by thinking you are not attractive enough; sexy enough, thin enough, smart enough. Her/his actions will give root to unhealthy beliefs about yourself and your values as a person and a sexual being but like I mentioned, you both need caution to procede.

There is the danger of depression, loss of hope, you may feel old before your time and there is certainly a sense of shame. Shame over the fact that your own spouse does not desire you any more! All what you importantly need is help. Don`t break down in the process...

This shame keeps you from sharing your problems with someone else. You find yourself with no support system and the growing belief that there is something terribly wrong with you.

The passive aggressive wife who withholds sex has emotional issues she is refusing to deal with. As a result, both of you end up each one with your own emotional issues to deal with, on top of a sexless marriage. 
 

Its a delicate issue, but better talked about than silent cold warring.If you could negotiate for an audience - even if it doesn`t work in a day - patience and focust will take us there.

Don`t worsen the situation by doing nothing positive but begin today, like NOW to do something POSITIVE for your relationships.

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